One of the hardest parts of trying to get your ex back is making the initial contact with them. If you contact your ex and get thing wrong it can put you in a worse position so it’s important to get it right. You need to be subtle in your initial approach to them. To begin with give them space and leave it a few weeks before contacting them.

This will give time for any animosity in the relationship to pass over. The best way to make the original contact with them would either be a simple email or text message. A text message would probably be best because it’s more likely to be noticed than an email. Most people check their phone much more often that their emails and this is why a text message is better.

Keep the message simple, just ask them how they are. If they reply then just take things as they come and when you feel the time’s right, ask them to meet as friends. If they don’t answer then leave it for a few days and then send them another message. If you send too many messages you will look needy and this isn’t attractive.

When some people don’t get a response within the first hour they lose the plot and start sending more messages. One message is sufficient to let your ex know that you want to speak to them again. If they find lots of messages from you it tells them you’re desperate.

If a week goes by and you still hear nothing then the best course of action would be to call your ex. This should be your last shot at trying to speak with your ex. If you don’t get hold of them and they don’t call back then you should take the hint that they’re avoiding you and move on gracefully. there’s no point in putting yourself through the pain of continually contacting your ex, it would be better to just accept that it’s over.

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